I’m Mrs. Speech, and for years, I’ve relied on daily jokes to raise the bar for vocabulary and linguistic flexibility school-wide. You can see my previous post on the topic, Why I had a joke board (And you should too), where I discuss the benefits to the school community. Today, I want to talk about the speech and language benefits to a daily joke.

The Cognitive Workout of a Joke

Jokes aren’t just funny; they are highly effective, embedded metacognition activities for SLPs. To understand a pun, riddle, or knock-knock joke, the brain must quickly engage in several complex therapeutic tasks:

Multiple Meaning & Semantic Flexibility

The core of most humor is the ambiguity of language. The student must simultaneously hold two meanings of a word (the literal and the figurative/unexpected) in mind. As I often ask my students, “What makes it funny? It’s the brain not being sure which meaning is correct!” This rapid shifting of focus is directly tied to reading comprehension and the ability to process novel vocabulary. (Example: “Why was the cyclops such a good teacher? He only had one pupil.”)

Inference and Abstract Thinking

Jokes almost always rely on unstated assumptions. Students must make a rapid inference—a cognitive leap—to bridge the gap between the setup and the punchline, a skill that directly transfers to narrative comprehension and problem-solving across all academic areas.

Sequencing, Memory & Retrieval

Telling or retelling a joke encourages the commitment of specific phrasing, vocabulary, and sequence to memory, building both auditory memory and verbal retrieval skills. This focus on structured language helps build stronger retrieval pathways.

Social-Pragmatic & Expressive Gains of Humor

The value of humor extends beyond words; it’s a powerful social lubricant that targets specific communication goals. Humor in speech therapy also provides these benefits:

Rapport and Low-Pressure Engagement

Humor builds a crucial bridge between students and teachers. For a shy or anxious child, having a simple joke to share provides a low-pressure entry point for conversation, drastically reducing the intimidation factor involved in practicing turn-taking and sustained conversation.

Intonation, Pacing & Fluency

Successfully delivering a punchline requires conscious control over prosody. Students naturally practice fluency skills like appropriate pacing and varying intonation to maximize the joke’s impact. This gives you a fun, motivating context to target speaking rate and voice modulation.

Perspective-Taking

Understanding why someone else doesn’t “get” a joke forces perspective-taking—identifying what specific context, vocabulary, or background knowledge they might be missing. This develops crucial social awareness.

Easy-Prep, High-Impact Routine: Jokes for SLPs

The great news is that getting started is easy. All you need is a poster-sized whiteboard and 30 seconds! (I used removable 3M velcro strips to avoid wall damage and permission issues.) You can start immediately by doing a quick online search for jokes, adding “for kids” to your query.

However, the challenge quickly becomes consistency and curation. I used to print out my joke document at the beginning of the year and place a checkmark next to jokes when I used them to avoid repetition.

If you want to maximize the therapeutic and school-wide benefits of humor (which also drastically improves your visibility as an SLP, as discussed in my previous post!), I’ve done the hard work for you:

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1. The Joke Bank (Core Content)

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Keep that funny bone tickled,

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As an SLP, parents and teachers are often concerned about middle school language development. They often ask me about a student who just doesn’t seem to “get it.” They’ll describe a child who takes everything literally, misses a joke, or seems to lack empathy. Since these kids are fluent speakers who sound like adults, it’s easy to assume these behaviors are a sign of a problem.

This is the middle school paradox. We assume that since their language sounds mature, their brains are fully equipped to handle complex social and communication skills. But what the lack or immaturity of these skills wasn’t a sign of a delay, but evidence of a developing brain? The truth is, while middle schoolers are great at sounding mature, their ability to handle the subtle, unspoken parts of communication is still a work in progress.

The Middle School Brain is Still Developing

It might seem they’ve suddenly grown up, but a middle schooler’s brain is still under construction. The prefrontal cortex, which handles complex thinking and self-control, won’t be fully developed until they are in their mid-twenties. This means many of the skills we adults take for granted are still being built. And honestly, don’t we all struggle with some of these things ourselves, no matter our age?

Understanding Abstract Language

Think about sarcasm, idioms, or metaphors. When a teacher says, “Oh, that’s just what I needed,” after a student drops papers everywhere, most adults get the joke. A middle schooler might not. Understanding this requires going beyond the literal words and reading the person’s tone and context.

This is also where inferencing comes in—it’s the ability to “read between the lines” and figure out what’s not explicitly stated. While a student might be able to define idioms on a school test, using and understanding them in a fast-paced, real-life conversation is much harder. Understanding colorful phrases is a still developing middle school language skill.

PSST: Read my last post Beyond “Spill the Beans”: Why Teaching Idioms Needs a Modern Glow-Up, for more information on this skill.

Navigating Social Cues

This is more than just empathy—it’s the ability to see things from another person’s point of view. Middle schoolers are so focused on figuring out their own identity that they can seem self-centered. It’s not a lack of caring; it’s a natural part of their social language development in middle school. A person has to understand their own self before they can truly understand others.

Part of this age’s awkwardness is that as they try to figure out their own identity, middle schoolers often “try on” different attitudes, styles, and interests. A student who is quiet one week might be outspoken the next. This isn’t being fake; it’s a natural form of social experimentation as they explore different versions of themselves.

Handling Big Emotions

Middle schoolers understand basic feelings like happy or sad, but they often struggle to name more complex emotions like frustration or anxiety. This can lead to them acting out because they lack the vocabulary to express what they’re truly feeling.

They might feel a physical response—a tight stomach, a pounding heart—without knowing what emotion is causing it. They’re also still developing the self-awareness and self-talk needed to pay attention to these body signals before they become too overwhelming.

For more information on social-emotional learning (SEL) and language, see this post: Beyond Happy or Sad: The Real Language of Emotions.

More Skills Developing in Middle School Brains

A few other language skills are still growing in middle schoolers, affecting their ability to learn and succeed.

Vocabulary and Word Knowledge

It’s not just about learning new words, but understanding all the different meanings and contexts for a single word. For example, a student might know that “trunk” refers to a suitcase, but they may not yet understand its use in phrases like “elephant trunk” or “tree trunk.”

Complex Language Comprehension

While they are using more sophisticated language, they can still struggle to fully understand long, grammatically intricate sentences in academic texts. The ability to break down and process this kind of intricate language is a skill that develops with exposure and explicit instruction.

Memory and Metacognitive Strategies

Middle schoolers are not only learning new things, but they are also beginning to learn how they learn. They’re developing metacognition—the ability to think about their own thinking. This includes learning and applying strategies for memory, such as using mnemonic devices or chunking information to make it easier to remember.

How You Can Help Middle School Language Development

Your support is the scaffolding they need to build these crucial skills. Here’s how you can help:

• Don’t Just Clarify, Explain. If you use sarcasm, follow up by saying, “I’m just being silly; I actually didn’t need that.” This helps them learn to spot a joke.
• Keep It Simple During High Emotion. When a middle schooler is upset, their thinking brain is offline. Use minimal words and direct instructions, like “Sit down. Breathe.”
• Talk It Through. Help them reflect on social situations. Ask, “Your friend looked sad. Why do you think that is?” This helps them practice perspective-taking and gives them the language to identify complex emotions.

Their challenging behaviors are often a sign of a developing brain, not a lack of effort or intelligence. By viewing them as a work in progress, we can provide the guidance they need to become capable and confident adults.

A Final Thought: The Power of Perspective

Middle school is a time of immense change, and much of the behavior that adults find confusing or frustrating is simply a reflection of a brain that is in an incredible, albeit awkward, state of growth. By reframing our perspective, we can stop seeing challenging behaviors as defiance. We can start viewing them, not only as naturally developing middle school language skills, but also as opportunities for teaching and connection.

As an SLP, I’ve seen firsthand that a little understanding and a lot of patience can make all the difference. Your support today is the scaffolding they need to build the crucial skills that will help them succeed as capable, compassionate, and confident adults.

For a more intensive way to pinpoint where a middle schooler needs support, consider my Middle School Contextual Language Screener/Profile. It uses an intentionally written fable as context to naturally pull out academic skills such as figurative language, multiple meanings, inferencing and problem solving.

You’ve learned about all the different areas where the middle school brain is still developing. But how do you keep track of it all? To make it easy, I’ve created a comprehensive, one-page chart that summarizes all these skills in a simple, visual format. It’s a great tool to keep handy for a quick reminder—you could even hang it in the teacher’s lounge!

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